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The Simply Scrupulosity Blog
By Abbie Tabbilos
Here on the Simply Scrupulosity Blog, you'll find all of my stories surrounding what I've learned working daily to master living with Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) to help inspire you to keep working towards, or maintain, your OCD recovery.
But don't worry — the blog is also a perfect place for you if you don't have Religious OCD. In the posts, you'll also learn more about the science behind OCD and how you can best support others who have Moral OCD.

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What is Scrupulosity OCD?
In this blog, we’ll cover everything you need to know about Scrupulosity OCD, from what it is and how it works to the best ways to approach healing and recovery.

abbietabbilos
3 days ago3 min read


Is This Scrupulosity OCD… or Church Culture?
I recently had a viewer of my podcast reach out to me and say, “Where do we draw the line between Scrupulosity OCD and church culture? Your account has opened my eyes to harmful thought patterns, but I feel like these are taught to us as children.” I can definitely see how this is a common question – especially when it comes to high-demand religions. So how can we differentiate Scrupulosity OCD from church culture?

abbietabbilos
Apr 273 min read


How to Avoid Avoidance When You Have Scrupulosity OCD
Recovering from OCD is all about learning to cope with anxiety without doing a compulsion. However, for many Scrupulosity OCD sufferers, the compulsion of avoidance can be particularly difficult to overcome.

abbietabbilos
Apr 163 min read


Does God Think You’re Using Scrupulosity OCD as an Excuse?
OCD is also known as the doubting disorder – and that means that sometimes, Scrupulosity OCD sufferers may wonder if they're pretending to have Religious OCD so that they have an excuse to sin.

abbietabbilos
Apr 84 min read


My Scrupulosity OCD Story
Learn how Scrupulosity OCD showed up in my life starting at 7 years old.

abbietabbilos
Apr 15 min read


When Does Faith Become Magical Thinking in Scrupulosity OCD?
It’s no secret that individuals who have Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) tend to have a relationship with faith that may appear distorted to others. For instance, they may struggle to incorporate self compassion, be more strict with standards or frequently become distressed about whether their faith is strong enough. However, one aspect of the relationship those with Scrupulosity OCD have with faith that has not been widely discussed is when sufferers cross t

abbietabbilos
Mar 255 min read


Making Friends at Church When You Have Scrupulosity OCD
Sometimes when you participate in church events when you have Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), it can feel like you are the only one experiencing the symptoms that you do. This is only exacerbated when you hear people at church sharing their testimonies or making certain comments during discussions. In fact, you might even feel like it’s taboo to talk about your struggles, whether it’s your doubts, your difficulties with self-esteem or some of your intrusive

abbietabbilos
Mar 183 min read


For When You Mourn Who You Were Before Scrupulosity OCD
Church feels overwhelming. You don’t feel like you can participate in your religion that same way you used to. You’re not sure how to get back to who you used to be before you entered Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) treatment. I’ve learned that a lot of these feelings stem from a sense of mourning your past religious experiences. And it’s interesting, because this can be the case even when the individual is doing much better now than they were when they were

abbietabbilos
Dec 10, 20253 min read


How Scrupulosity OCD Affects Your Thanksgiving Experience
You might be wondering what on earth Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder has to do with Thanksgiving. In fact, at first glance, it might not appear to have anything to do with it! However, do you tend to struggle on holidays and not know why? If so, OCD may be playing a bigger role than you might think. How OCD could impact your holiday experience From as early as I can remember, during every single family gathering or holiday celebration, I got a feeling that I eventu

abbietabbilos
Nov 26, 20252 min read


The Problem With Believing “I Can’t Do This Without God”
One of the biggest hyperfixations I had when my Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) was at my peak was chapter seven of a book called Preach My Gospel. For those who are not/never have been members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, this book is most commonly used for members who are preparing to become missionaries. However, it can also be used by church members in general to deepen their understanding of the gospel. The chapter I focused so mu

abbietabbilos
Nov 13, 20252 min read


People Admired Me for Having Scrupulosity OCD
By now you know that Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder perpetuates problematic behaviors that wreak havoc on the life of the sufferer (and sometimes the lives of the people who love them). However, from the outside and on the surface, the very behaviors that are causing so much pain can actually appear to be admired by others. This can be quite confusing for Scrupulosity OCD sufferers because although they may be aware that their behaviors are causing them distress

abbietabbilos
Nov 5, 20253 min read


Why Your Self-Love Shouldn’t Be Tied to Your Religion
When I was on a walk one windy afternoon, I came to some troubling realizations. First, I only respected myself when I felt I was being obedient. Second, I struggled to have self-compassion when I made a mistake. Third, and ultimately, if I didn’t think I was being righteous, I couldn’t love myself. Does that sound familiar? If so, this blog is for you. Religious-based self-love When your self-love is rooted in your religious beliefs, that means it is conditional upon things

abbietabbilos
Oct 29, 20253 min read


How Do You Know You’ve Been Forgiven by God if You Have Scrupulosity OCD?
Even people who don’t have Scrupulosity Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) wonder how they can know when they’ve truly been forgiven by God for their sins. They may read scripture passages to help them answer the question, or pray and ask God for reassurance that they have been forgiven. So why should those with Scrupulosity OCD avoid seeking an answer to this question? The answer is simple: it's the perfect trap for getting stuck in the OCD cycle. In fact, any question tha

abbietabbilos
Oct 22, 20253 min read


ERP for Scrupulosity OCD Can Feel Like a Sin
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is one of the most popular treatment modals for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). It involves...

abbietabbilos
Aug 6, 20253 min read


3 Ways You Can Support a Loved One with Scrupulosity OCD
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) affects so many more people than just the person suffering from the disorder. In fact, it can cause...

abbietabbilos
Jul 30, 20253 min read


Feelings Are Not Facts – Especially When You Have OCD
When I was young, I heard someone at church say, “If you stay close to Jesus, you will always be happy no matter what happens to you.”...

abbietabbilos
Jul 10, 20253 min read


Is It the Spirit or OCD?
I’m going to give you two scenarios, and I want you to decide which experience details something happening with Scrupulosity...

abbietabbilos
Jul 3, 20254 min read


Is Worry a Sin? How People With Scrupulosity OCD Should View It
Worry is not a topic that religion has been silent about. In fact, there are many scriptures talking about how worry is evidence of a...

abbietabbilos
Jun 25, 20253 min read


Avoiding Fear-Based Obedience in Scrupulosity OCD
One of the main components of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is fear. Whether it’s the fear of getting others sick, not being in the...

abbietabbilos
Jun 19, 20252 min read


Managing Intrusive Thoughts
Imagine going about your everyday life – working, cooking, cleaning, taking care of your family, etc. – while dealing with constant,...

abbietabbilos
Jun 12, 20253 min read
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